Shoulder to cry on
Things happen and sometimes we feel like this life have no sense and everything is bad and there is no point to live and to struggle anymore. There are such moments when it seems like the whole world wage a war against you and there is no such a person in the world who can support you and who can help. There are such moments and those are terrible moments.
And those are the moments when you need a shoulder to cry on. No matter how strong you are, no matter whether you are a man or a woman you may get into such a situation and you will feel tired and frustrated. In this very moment you will feel in sharp need for someone who can show you the light and who will be a shelter for you.
And those are moments you go some place where you can feel at ease and feel relief and as a rule the place you go is your friend's place. That is right - it is a friend a shoulder to cry one. He or she will never laugh about your pain or tears and he or she will never hit you your wound. He or she is the one you are looking for help of and they will never reject this request of you.
Things are better for women as they can cry on the shoulder of a man they are in love with, though things are different for men. They have to be strong so women feel in safe next to them and so men have no right to show their weakness. But they are tired sometimes of being like a wall for women and they need their friends to express all those fears they can tell their women about.