Naive or animo-blind?
Interesting that, neither of heterosexual friends realizes the real feelings of a person who wants to be a friend. It is common for us to feel that people are in love with us. It is common for us to realize it according to their behavior, to the way they look at us and to the words they say us. Though, for somehow people never notice those when they are friends.
So, what is the deal with that blindness? Are people really so naïve that they can't see the obvious things? Or maybe it is easier for them not to notice those things? It is common for people to be animo-blind towards real feelings of their friends as it is convenient to them to have such a friend. They don't want to lose one who is of great help for them.
There are also cases when people are too naïve to notice the real idea of their feelings. They do believe in such a friendship and they fight for it. Though, sooner or later they realize the whole idea of the relations they had. And it always hurts whine people are suddenly healed of their blindness.
Don not be blind and do not be naive. Do not be naïve and realize the real feelings of a person you call a friend. In case you realize those though you keep acting friends – stop it. Do not be animo-blind because your blindness will result in a good number of troubles for both of you. One who is in love with you will never be a good friend for you.