Where is the border?
Some people say that friendship is a phenomenon of the same nature with love but of the different kind. And there are also people who are sure that those are polarities to each other and there is nothing in common between love and friendship. Many men many minds, though there should be one common idea as for those two the most important phenomena of this life. A friend and a person one is in love is – are the most important people in the life of every person. They are people one can hardly live without.
So, where is the border between love and friendship? Is there a border between those two phenomena? Those two questions are of great importance just like the phenomena they deal with. Some people say, that it is the friendship the perfect base for love and other people say that there should be no friendship where the love is and in counter. So, what the deal with those two phenomena is? It is likely that one has to give his own answers for those questions but still it is interesting whether there is a point of view common for all people.
Love is a rather tender feeling and it is also a feeling hard to find and easy to lost or to kill. There is no way for love to be gone though love could be killed when people are too cruel and ignorant towards it. The same is also true for friendship. Though, friendship is not that hard to find but it is also easy to lose. It is common for both of those phenomena that it is hard to renew those. Friends and lovers are people who greatly trust each other and so when they are hurt they lose their ability to trust people and they become stern and thick-skinned people.
This is the main reason why it is so hard to make love alive again in case you were so stupid to kill it. Though, the question is where the boundary between love and friendship is and whether those two phenomena a closely connected or those are things of different worlds and may never meet each other. I guess there is a birder between them and there is a door in the wall that separates them and that door may be opened only in one direction and it may never be opened in the opposite direction.